Dating after leaving bpd spouse
He was an exceptionally great guy who loved me and treated me like a princess. A few months into the relationship, he thought my friends were a bad influence on me.I felt the same way too and decided to spend less time with my friends. It was more like he was concerned about me and cared for me.[Read: How to deal with insecurity in a relationship] That’s the strange power of insecurity and insecure men in a relationship.Experiences with insecure men The first time I ever dated an insecure guy was almost a decade ago.A secure man wouldn’t be offended or threatened if his woman speaks to other guys *unless she’s had a sexual history with that guy*.
If you’re stuck in a relationship with an insecure man, you’ll have to spend all your life trying to please him and make him feel happy and satisfied in the relationship.[Read: Why does love hurt so much when it goes bad? Insecurity is a deep rooted issue that’s as unique as the guy.But almost always insecurity is a trait that’s associated with men who have low self esteem.And then, it was the same with my job and with the amount of time I spent in office and how much I spend on shopping. But he always seemed hurt and pained when I went out without him. No matter what I did, unless I had his approval, he was always upset by something or the other. Nothing could ever please him, and he always had a way of pointing flaws in the things I did.I tried changing myself for him so he could be proud of me. I was in this relationship for almost three years before we had to go our own ways for good.